NYC Divorce Mediators

Divorce Mediation: An Amicable Way to End Your Relationship

Couples who are considering a divorce will often turn to divorce mediation as an effective way to amicably bring their relationship to an end. Engaging in this process allows them the chance to settle any outstanding disputes or issues that can frequently arise during a divorce, but they can do so in a somewhat more relaxed and less stressful setting than a courtroom. And in our experience at the Spodek Law Firm, mediation often proves to be a very effective method for overcoming such differences.

How Does Mediation Work?

While it is true that most mediations are not directly managed by the courts, it is nevertheless a legal process. This in turn means that the assistance you can get from a professional in divorce and matrimonial law can be of tremendous benefit to you in your divorce case. In the end, a court will have to review the papers and any agreements the two parties may have come to, signing off on the final divorce judgment.

Mediation offers both spouses a formal structure in which any tensions and animosity can be reduced while the settlement is being discussed. Keep in mind that the mediator does not serve as a referee or judge during the mediation and does not have the power or authority to make decisions for either party in the divorce when it comes to important matters. Their role is to serve as an impartial, neutral party who can offer their knowledge and opinions in a way that will help the divorcing couple reach a compromise they can both accept.

Choosing a Mediator

While it is true that divorce mediators can have diverse backgrounds and training, some will be more effective than others. Any divorce – regardless of circumstances – is going to be uncomfortable and perhaps even acrimonious. When choosing a mediator, it is important to select someone who will not only help the couple keep their tempers under control, but also someone that both can trust to help them arrive at a fair and equitable settlement.

Often, your best choice for a mediator is a lawyer experienced in divorce law. Divorce lawyers who focus on divorce mediation will be well aware of what it takes to help resolve family and matrimonial disputes, whether the process involves mediation, litigation, or other approaches. When it comes to divorce mediation, a divorce lawyer is the only professional who will have spent years studying the law, earning a juris doctorate and passing the state bar exam.

You Will Need a Lawyer Regardless

When deciding whether you want to have a divorce lawyer serve as your mediator, you should consider the fact that you are going to need legal advice from an experienced divorce lawyer in any case. This lawyer will have to work up a draft of your settlement agreement, which means if a lawyer serves as your mediator it can save time and effort at a later point in the process.

On the other hand, it is also true that even should you choose a divorce lawyer as your mediator and that lawyer creates the divorce agreement, there is a good chance he or she will advise you to engage a second attorney to review the terms of the agreement. The reason for this is that the mediator’s principal responsibility was to mediate, not to provide you – or your spouse – with legal advice.

Christine Twomey

2024-03-21

Just had my Divorce case settled 2 months ago after having a horrible experience with another firm. I couldn’t be happier with Claire Banks and Elizabeth Garvey with their outstanding professionalism in doing so with Spodek Law Group. Any time I needed questions answered they were always prompt in doing so with all my uncertainties after 30 yrs of marriage.I feel from the bottom of my heart you will NOT be disappointed with either one. Thanks a million.

Brendan huisman

2024-03-18

Alex Zhik contacted me almost immediately when I reached out to Spodek for a consultation and was able to effectively communicate the path forward/consequences of my legal issue. I immediately agreed to hire Alex for his services and did not regret my choice. He was able to cover my case in court (with 1 day notice) and not only was he able to push my case down, he carefully negotiated a dismissal of the charge altogether. I highly recommend Spodek, and more specifically, Alex Zhik for all of your legal issues. Thanks guys!

Guerline Menard

2024-03-18

Thanks again Spodek law firm, particularly Esq Claire Banks who stood right there with us up to the finish line. Attached photos taken right outside of the court building and the smile on our faces represented victory, a breath of fresh air and satisfaction. We are very happy that this is over and we can move on with our lives. Thanks Spodek law 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼❤️

Keisha Parris

2024-03-15

Believe every single review here about Alex Z!! From our initial consultation, it was evident that Alex possessed a profound understanding of criminal law and a fierce dedication to his clients rights. Throughout the entirety of my case, Alex exhibited unparalleled professionalism and unwavering commitment. What sets Alex apart is not only his legal expertise but also his genuine compassion for his clients. He took the time to thoroughly explain my case, alleviating any concerns I had along the way. His exact words were “I’m not worried about it”. His unwavering support and guidance were invaluable throughout the entire process. I am immensely grateful for Alex's exceptional legal representation and wholeheartedly recommend his services to anyone in need of a skilled criminal defense attorney. Alex Z is not just a lawyer; he is a beacon of hope for those navigating the complexities of the legal system. If you find yourself in need of a dedicated and competent legal advocate, look no further than Alex Z.

Taïko Beauty

2024-03-15

I don’t know where to start, I can write a novel about this firm, but one thing I will say is that having my best interest was their main priority since the beginning of my case which was back in Winter 2019. Miss Claire Banks, one of the best Attorneys in the firm represented me very well and was very professional, respectful, and truthful. Not once did she leave me in the dark, in fact she presented all options and routes that could possibly be considered for my case and she reinsured me that no matter what I decided to do, her and the team will have my back and that’s exactly what happened. Not only will I be liberated from this case, also, I will enjoy my freedom and continue to be a mother to my first born son and will have no restrictions with accomplishing my goals in life. Now that’s what I call victory!! I thank the Lord, My mother, Claire, and the Spodek team for standing by me and fighting with me. Words can’t describe how grateful I am to have the opportunity to work with this team. I’m very satisfied, very pleased with their performance, their hard work, and their diligence. Thank you team!

Anthony Williams

2024-03-12

Hey, how you guys doing? Good afternoon my name is Anthony Williams I just want to give a great shout out to the team of. Spodek law group. It is such a honor to use them and to use their assistance through this whole case from start to finish. They did everything that they said they was gonna do and if it ever comes down to it, if I ever have to use them again, hands-down they will be the first law office at the top of my list, thank you guys so much. It was a pleasure having you guys by my side so if you guys ever need them, do not hesitate to pick up the phone and give them a call.

Loveth Okpedo

2024-03-12

Very professional, very transparent, over all a great experience

Bee L

2024-02-28

Amazing experience with Spodek! Very professional lawyers who take your case seriously. They treated me with respect, were always available, and answered any and all questions. They were able to help me very successfully and removed a huge stress. Highly recommend.

divesh patel

2024-02-24

I can't recommend Alex Zhik and Spodek Law Firm highly enough for their exceptional legal representation and personal mentorship. From the moment I engaged their services in October 2022, Alex took the time to understand my case thoroughly and provided guidance every step of the way. Alex's dedication to my case went above and beyond my expectations. His expertise, attention to detail, and commitment to achieving the best possible outcome were evident throughout the entire process. He took the time to mentor me, ensuring I understood the legal complexities involved to make informed decisions. Alex is the kind of guy you would want to have a beer with and has made a meaningful impact on me. I also want to acknowledge Todd Spodek, the leader of the firm, who played a crucial role in my case. His leadership and support bolstered the efforts of Alex, and his involvement highlighted the firm's commitment to excellence. Thanks to Alex Zhik and Todd Spodek, I achieved the outcome I desired, and I am incredibly grateful for their professionalism, expertise, and genuine care. If you're in need of legal representation, look no further than this outstanding team.

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Although mediation can offer a useful way of avoiding excessive litigation during a divorce, this does not imply that you can avoid engaging legal professionals. There are any number of complex legal issues that must be contained in any divorce agreement. This is why having a divorce lawyer serve as mediator can help reduce the problems that may have to be later corrected by the attorney reviewing the divorce agreement.

Communication is Key

Communication is one of the most important things to consider when you are selecting a divorce mediator. You have to be able to comfortably interact with the professional you have chosen. The lawyers at the Spodek Law Firm have a vast amount of experience working with clients and mediating disputes in a way that helps lead to agreements that both parties can live with. If you have any further questions on this topic or any other divorce concerns, please feel free to contact us for a consultation. Our friendly and experienced staff will be happy to help you with your case.